How to Plan Your Wedding Budget (Without the Stress)

Planning your big day should feel exciting, not overwhelming. With clear priorities, honest conversations, and the right tools, you can enjoy every step of the journey together.

July 15, 2025

Getting married is one of life’s most meaningful moments. And yes, it can come with a price tag. But that doesn’t mean you need to overspend or stress out. With a little planning and teamwork, you can create a wedding budget that reflects your values, your style, and your shared goals.

Here’s how to make budgeting feel like part of the celebration.

  1. Start with what matters most

Before you look at the numbers, take time to talk about what’s most important to each of you. Maybe it’s a stunning location, incredible food, or an intimate ceremony surrounded by loved ones. Choose your top three must-haves together and give those priority in your budget. The rest can be more flexible.

  1. Open a Joint Account

Managing money as a couple gets so much easier when you’re working from the same account.

With a bunq Joint Account, you both contribute, spend, and track everything together. No more wondering who paid for what. You can also create multiple Bank Accounts for things like catering, the dress, or décor. It’s a simple way to stay organized and on top of every detail.

  1. Set a clear budget

Once you know what you want, figure out what you can comfortably afford. Combine your savings, agree on your total spend, and set a realistic limit that works for both of you. With bunq’s Easy Budgeting, you can track how much you’ve spent in each category in real time. It helps you stay on track without needing spreadsheets or guesswork.

  1. Break it down

Now it’s time to get into the details. List out all your expected costs like venue, food, outfits, and music. Don’t forget smaller expenses like license fees, tips, or last-minute changes. Use Spending Limits on each sub-account to keep things clear and under control. It’s the easiest way to stick to your plan without missing a beat.

  1. Stay flexible and in control

Things change. Maybe you decide to splurge on a photographer or need to adjust your guest list. That’s totally normal. With Instant Notifications and Insights, you’ll always see where your money is going. If you overspend in one area, it’s easy to rebalance in another. Your budget grows with your plans, not against them.

  1. Set aside a little extra

Even with great planning, surprises can pop up. Someone brings an unexpected plus-one or the weather calls for a last-minute tent rental. That’s why it’s smart to set aside around 10% of your total budget in a separate sub-account. Think of it as your wedding day safety net.

Money tip: Little extras add up fast, and that’s where bunq’s AutoSave comes in. It helps you build a buffer without even thinking about it. Perfect for matching robes, thank-you gifts, or a spontaneous mini-moon.

Your wedding is a celebration of your love, and planning it can be part of the fun. With bunq by your side, you can manage your budget easily, stay aligned, and enjoy every moment along the way.

Start your journey with confidence. Start it together.

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